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Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Achieving a Successful Body Transformation: Part 2
In the first article of this series, I talked about taking responsibility, the power of choice and how you need to stop over-thinking if you want to be truly successful with your fat loss. Unfortunately, it doesn’t stop there. There are a few more important strategies and tips that you’ll need to incorporate into your life as well.
In this article I’m going to get you all set up for success. These points are just as crucial as the points in Part 1, in my opinion. So if you haven’t read Part 1 of this series yet, I highly recommend you do so before reading this article.
Set Your Goals
I think having goals are important, but just writing a bunch of goals down on a piece of paper isn’t going to make them happen. The first thing you have to do is be specific. Set a specific date that you want to reach your goals by. This is the time of year my phone is ringing off the hook for phone consultations because the snow is starting to melt and people realize summer is just around the corner. Your goal could be to lose 15 pounds of fat by May 10, 2008. Like I said, be specific.
You must be able to answer the question of why these are your goals and why they are important for you to complete. The more significant your ‘why’ the better chance you have of sticking to those goals and getting the results you are looking for. For example, your reason to lose 15 pounds of fat might be because your friend is starting a program. That’s not going to be as powerful to you as wanting to lose the 15 pounds of fat for a vacation or to decrease your risk of diabetes.
If your ‘why’ is about you, there is a greater urgency and focus to get the results you want. You won’t let minor temptations affect your progress. Everybody’s reasons will be different, and they will all have different levels of importance. That was just one example. I know people who have an amazingly high motivation because their goal is to fit into a lower size pair of jeans they just bought.
Don’t Forget to Set Boundaries Too
Now that you have a set of goals, you have to realistically sit down and figure out what choices you are currently making in your life that are going to hold you back from reaching your goals. This is another reason my phone is off the hook. To help people set their boundaries or rules. You are going to have to make a few different types of lists, too.
Usually it’s a work list, a home list and a social list. Maybe your work list will say to only drink one cup of coffee a day. You might write on your home list to only watch one hour of television a night. Your social list might say to only have one drink when you go out to dinner with your friends.
Every choice you make should bring you closer to reaching your goals. That’s why you set them in the first place. It doesn’t really make a lot of sense to set a bunch of goals and then do things that won’t help you reach them. So set some solid boundaries for yourself.
Keep Them Fresh
After you have all your goals and your boundaries written down you have to keep them fresh in your mind. If you just write your goals out and then put them in a folder where you won’t see them, your focus won’t be where it needs to be. Keep a list of your goals in your wallet, on your fridge or taped above your bed. Read your goals every morning when you wake up and every night before you go to bed. Make sure they are always fresh in your mind, so when you’re making decisions, you’ll know how those decisions will affect your goals.
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one day at a time
Turn yourself into a new person each day. Say to yourself that for 24 hours all of the choices you make will bring you closer to your goals. After you’re successful for a day, then choose to spend the next 24 hours making the same choices. If you falter, then let it go immediately and get back on track. I’ve found this method to work extremely well with clients and it very well could bring you to your goals faster than you think.
In this article I’m going to get you all set up for success. These points are just as crucial as the points in Part 1, in my opinion. So if you haven’t read Part 1 of this series yet, I highly recommend you do so before reading this article.
Set Your Goals
I think having goals are important, but just writing a bunch of goals down on a piece of paper isn’t going to make them happen. The first thing you have to do is be specific. Set a specific date that you want to reach your goals by. This is the time of year my phone is ringing off the hook for phone consultations because the snow is starting to melt and people realize summer is just around the corner. Your goal could be to lose 15 pounds of fat by May 10, 2008. Like I said, be specific.
You must be able to answer the question of why these are your goals and why they are important for you to complete. The more significant your ‘why’ the better chance you have of sticking to those goals and getting the results you are looking for. For example, your reason to lose 15 pounds of fat might be because your friend is starting a program. That’s not going to be as powerful to you as wanting to lose the 15 pounds of fat for a vacation or to decrease your risk of diabetes.
If your ‘why’ is about you, there is a greater urgency and focus to get the results you want. You won’t let minor temptations affect your progress. Everybody’s reasons will be different, and they will all have different levels of importance. That was just one example. I know people who have an amazingly high motivation because their goal is to fit into a lower size pair of jeans they just bought.
Don’t Forget to Set Boundaries Too
Now that you have a set of goals, you have to realistically sit down and figure out what choices you are currently making in your life that are going to hold you back from reaching your goals. This is another reason my phone is off the hook. To help people set their boundaries or rules. You are going to have to make a few different types of lists, too.
Usually it’s a work list, a home list and a social list. Maybe your work list will say to only drink one cup of coffee a day. You might write on your home list to only watch one hour of television a night. Your social list might say to only have one drink when you go out to dinner with your friends.
Every choice you make should bring you closer to reaching your goals. That’s why you set them in the first place. It doesn’t really make a lot of sense to set a bunch of goals and then do things that won’t help you reach them. So set some solid boundaries for yourself.
Keep Them Fresh
After you have all your goals and your boundaries written down you have to keep them fresh in your mind. If you just write your goals out and then put them in a folder where you won’t see them, your focus won’t be where it needs to be. Keep a list of your goals in your wallet, on your fridge or taped above your bed. Read your goals every morning when you wake up and every night before you go to bed. Make sure they are always fresh in your mind, so when you’re making decisions, you’ll know how those decisions will affect your goals.
________________________
one day at a time
Turn yourself into a new person each day. Say to yourself that for 24 hours all of the choices you make will bring you closer to your goals. After you’re successful for a day, then choose to spend the next 24 hours making the same choices. If you falter, then let it go immediately and get back on track. I’ve found this method to work extremely well with clients and it very well could bring you to your goals faster than you think.
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Failing isn't actually failing
I was reading a book the other day called Your Portable Empire by Pat O'Bryan. It's about internet marketing so it's probably of no interest to you but I like to read different types of books every once in a while to see if I can pick up a fresh idea. The point, however, which I took from the book, was that all failure is just data.
I thought that was an interesting way to look at it. The more I thought about it, the more it made sense to me. It's hard sometimes to do something out of the ordinary because if you don't succeed the way you thought you would, you may think the whole world will think of you as a failure.
But if you look at it from the outside in, you'll realize that your 'failure' probably isn't even that big of deal in other peoples eyes.
Failure isn't really failing. It's just collecting the proper data to help you along your journey to succeed in realizing your goals.
Think about it. If you tried to get a six pack before and 'failed', what happened? What did you do and what could you have done better?
Make a list of the things you thought helped you and make another list of the things that you probably could have done a better job on.
Now take the list that you wrote of things you could have done a better job on and make a side list of how you are going to do a better job with those things this time.
So let's say that on your 'could've done better' list you wrote, "Had too many pizza and beer nights."
So on your 'how will I do better' list you might write, "have a pizza and beer night only 1 time a month because if getting a six pack is really important to me I know I must sacrifice and have the will power to do so."
That's just an example, of course. You know better then I do what stopped you from reaching your goal.
The biggest thing to learn from all this is that you should NEVER quit because you didn't achieve your goal the first time around (or even your second or third time). Just take it as data that will give you a better shot next time.
Cheers,
Dan Grant
www.degreesofchangefatlossplan.com
PS - The new blog is COMING SOON....there's been some delays (seems to always happen), but it is coming shortly.
I thought that was an interesting way to look at it. The more I thought about it, the more it made sense to me. It's hard sometimes to do something out of the ordinary because if you don't succeed the way you thought you would, you may think the whole world will think of you as a failure.
But if you look at it from the outside in, you'll realize that your 'failure' probably isn't even that big of deal in other peoples eyes.
Failure isn't really failing. It's just collecting the proper data to help you along your journey to succeed in realizing your goals.
Think about it. If you tried to get a six pack before and 'failed', what happened? What did you do and what could you have done better?
Make a list of the things you thought helped you and make another list of the things that you probably could have done a better job on.
Now take the list that you wrote of things you could have done a better job on and make a side list of how you are going to do a better job with those things this time.
So let's say that on your 'could've done better' list you wrote, "Had too many pizza and beer nights."
So on your 'how will I do better' list you might write, "have a pizza and beer night only 1 time a month because if getting a six pack is really important to me I know I must sacrifice and have the will power to do so."
That's just an example, of course. You know better then I do what stopped you from reaching your goal.
The biggest thing to learn from all this is that you should NEVER quit because you didn't achieve your goal the first time around (or even your second or third time). Just take it as data that will give you a better shot next time.
Cheers,
Dan Grant
www.degreesofchangefatlossplan.com
PS - The new blog is COMING SOON....there's been some delays (seems to always happen), but it is coming shortly.
Sunday, March 2, 2008
Achieving A Successful Body Transformation: Part 1
Here's my latest article on The Soko.
Enjoy,
Achieving A Successful Body Transformation: Part 1
Most people seem to want the quick fix solution. Over the years, they have gained more and more weight, and then all of sudden, a magical pill hits the stores that claims it can take it just once a day and change nothing else in their lives to lose inches and inches off their waist. They think they have found the answer.
It sounds so easy. Just take one little pill and bam! Your fat will disappear forever and you can still live the unhealthy lifestyle that got you to think about taking the pills in the first place.
There are a lot of ‘miracle’ products out there from pills to the latest ab equipment. The sad truth for almost everybody is that they don’t do what they are supposed to do. They just flat out don’t work.
Why? Because you can’t just snap your fingers and the weight is gone. There are some major lifestyle changes that need to be made and they are going to take some effort to conquer them.
The great motivational speaker, Jim Rohn has said, “For every disciplined effort there is a multiple reward.”
I’ll be honest, this will take discipline, but the rewards will be golden.
Take Responsibility
To become truly successful with your body transformation you must first take responsibility of your actions. It seems like a pretty simple idea, but hardly anybody actually does it.
If I asked you why you wanted to change the look of your body and why it got like that in the first place, what would your answer be? Would you answer that it was all your fault? Or would you have somebody or something else to blame?
Maybe you had a child. Maybe you started working more. Maybe your friend stopped working out with you. There are thousands of excuses as to why you got out of shape, but the reality is that it’s you, and only you, that could have prevented it from happening.
This is the first step, because if you don’t take full responsibility when something goes wrong (and something definitely will), you’re probably not going to move forward and try to beat the challenge. You will either quit or make excuses. I realize that this may sound a little over the top, but it’s not. It’s very real and once my clients have taken this mindset their results either double or triple.
Power of Choice
Once you’ve decided to take full responsibility for your transformation, it’s time to use your common sense to win. When you are offered dessert at your friend’s house after dinner, you will know to do what is best for your goals. Same goes for when you’re grocery shopping. You know that chips and pop are not good for you, so why would you buy them for yourself if you are actually serious about reaching your goals?
Everything you do is a choice -- plain and simple. So when it comes to your success with your transformation, you have to make sure that your choices are moving you forward towards your goals.
It’s a simple yet tough choice that we all have the capability of making. The obesity crisis continues to rise, proving that a lot of people just are not doing it.
Stop Over-Thinking
The more we complicate things, the harder those things are to accomplish. Fitness information is all over the internet and it’s really easy to get confused about what you should actually be doing. I’ve had clients who have hired me because they were so confused from trying to figure it out themselves that they just wanted answers.
I know people who have spent thousands and thousands of dollars on every new diet or ab product. You’ll hear me say this a lot in this article series, but there is no magic answer. That’s why new products have to keep coming out. Because if there actually was a product that solved everything, then you would know about it and I would be out of business.
_____________________________
more to come
I realize that this was a loaded article, but I feel it was a necessary article to write and share with you. Remember, once you take responsibility for your actions and make sure that every choice you make brings you closer to your goals, you will be well on your way to success.
To your success,
Dan Grant
PS - I had a MAJOR computer meltdown this week so if you've emailed me I WILL get back to you as soon as possible. Thanks.
Enjoy,
Achieving A Successful Body Transformation: Part 1
Most people seem to want the quick fix solution. Over the years, they have gained more and more weight, and then all of sudden, a magical pill hits the stores that claims it can take it just once a day and change nothing else in their lives to lose inches and inches off their waist. They think they have found the answer.
It sounds so easy. Just take one little pill and bam! Your fat will disappear forever and you can still live the unhealthy lifestyle that got you to think about taking the pills in the first place.
There are a lot of ‘miracle’ products out there from pills to the latest ab equipment. The sad truth for almost everybody is that they don’t do what they are supposed to do. They just flat out don’t work.
Why? Because you can’t just snap your fingers and the weight is gone. There are some major lifestyle changes that need to be made and they are going to take some effort to conquer them.
The great motivational speaker, Jim Rohn has said, “For every disciplined effort there is a multiple reward.”
I’ll be honest, this will take discipline, but the rewards will be golden.
Take Responsibility
To become truly successful with your body transformation you must first take responsibility of your actions. It seems like a pretty simple idea, but hardly anybody actually does it.
If I asked you why you wanted to change the look of your body and why it got like that in the first place, what would your answer be? Would you answer that it was all your fault? Or would you have somebody or something else to blame?
Maybe you had a child. Maybe you started working more. Maybe your friend stopped working out with you. There are thousands of excuses as to why you got out of shape, but the reality is that it’s you, and only you, that could have prevented it from happening.
This is the first step, because if you don’t take full responsibility when something goes wrong (and something definitely will), you’re probably not going to move forward and try to beat the challenge. You will either quit or make excuses. I realize that this may sound a little over the top, but it’s not. It’s very real and once my clients have taken this mindset their results either double or triple.
Power of Choice
Once you’ve decided to take full responsibility for your transformation, it’s time to use your common sense to win. When you are offered dessert at your friend’s house after dinner, you will know to do what is best for your goals. Same goes for when you’re grocery shopping. You know that chips and pop are not good for you, so why would you buy them for yourself if you are actually serious about reaching your goals?
Everything you do is a choice -- plain and simple. So when it comes to your success with your transformation, you have to make sure that your choices are moving you forward towards your goals.
It’s a simple yet tough choice that we all have the capability of making. The obesity crisis continues to rise, proving that a lot of people just are not doing it.
Stop Over-Thinking
The more we complicate things, the harder those things are to accomplish. Fitness information is all over the internet and it’s really easy to get confused about what you should actually be doing. I’ve had clients who have hired me because they were so confused from trying to figure it out themselves that they just wanted answers.
I know people who have spent thousands and thousands of dollars on every new diet or ab product. You’ll hear me say this a lot in this article series, but there is no magic answer. That’s why new products have to keep coming out. Because if there actually was a product that solved everything, then you would know about it and I would be out of business.
_____________________________
more to come
I realize that this was a loaded article, but I feel it was a necessary article to write and share with you. Remember, once you take responsibility for your actions and make sure that every choice you make brings you closer to your goals, you will be well on your way to success.
To your success,
Dan Grant
PS - I had a MAJOR computer meltdown this week so if you've emailed me I WILL get back to you as soon as possible. Thanks.
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